It took me months of pondering to recognize how I could write about Donald Trump in a way to keep it from politics or how the media talks about him.
This is about neither politics nor the media.
If it were about politics, alone, I might be a Trumper. I’ve always been conservative. And pro life.
But, it’s not about politics. It’s about what comes from the man.
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When I was a pastor, if I had spoken in the manner our president too often speaks and tweets—making fun of people, berating people, belittling people—I would have been kicked out of office.
At first, I would have been given a stern talking to. If I kept it up, I would have been gone.
If I had previously held the respect of the members of my congregation, I would have lost it. I would have deserved to have lost it. The blame would have rested where it belonged: on me.
Pastors are held to high standards. A few of the biblical criteria are that ministers are to be self-controlled, gentle, with behavior that is above reproach. And don’t forget the Golden Rule, to treat others as one wants to be treated.
If pastors are to model such behavior, shouldn’t the person holding the office of President of the United States be similarly obligated?
If—the way our president has done—I called out those who perhaps could stand to lose weight, before the leaders of my congregation had a chance to corner me my wife would have asked me where my head was.
If—the way our president has done with opponents, those who no longer work for him, and even some in his own party—I referred to anyone as a clown, or a spoiled brat without a functioning brain, or a low class slob, I would not have even gotten out of the room before I was nailed for my behavior.
And if I used such language on Twitter or anywhere online, my wife Julie would have taken my phone away and blocked my internet usage the way parents have to punish their children who cannot mind their manners.
And all of the behavior that would have been unacceptable would have remained unacceptable no matter how well I ministered to my congregation, no matter how well I might have preached.
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I framed this as when I was a pastor. I’ve not been a minister for five years. But I’ve remained Julie’s husband. And my children’s father. And an Eilers. Not to mention my most important standing: Christian.
And all of the behavior that would have been unacceptable from me when I was a pastor remain unacceptable.
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People who don’t act in a respectable manner do not deserve respect.
Donald Trump too often does not speak or tweet in a respectable manner, thus I do not respect him.
He’s my president, and I respect the office he holds. I pray for him every day. I long for him to serve our nation that we might live in peace and prosper, that we might be a shining example to other nations.
I do not wish him ill, but because I do not respect him I don’t want him to be president.
I would prefer he recognize his boorish behavior for what it is. I would prefer he change the way he too often treats others.
If he were to do so, I could come to respect him as a human being.